Sexuality is an integral part of any healthy, well-balanced relationship. Sex helps to bring you closer in a way that only romantic relationships can foster. Where, how, and how often you have it is totally up to the two or more people in an intimate and loving relationship. Keeping things fun and intimate is paramount to ensuring a strong bond between you and your partner. Oral sex is all about giving. When my partner goes down on me, it makes me feel close to him. That's not to say that oral sex should be the ultimate barometer in measuring the closeness you have with your partner, but a willingness to regularly engage in oral sex is a true sign of your adoration.
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No, there are couples of all kinds that have no interest in oral sex. Most couples do enjoy it, but many don't. There are also couples where one partner wants it and the other doesn't. That isn't a problem if the one that doesn't want it is willing to perform it.
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Years ago, I was having lunch with a woman who would eventually become one of my closest friends. To say she and I had great ease in talking about sex in our marriages would be an understatement. To this day, she is a confidante who I know will always be up for a transparent and authentic conversation about sexual struggles and sexual joys. I know there are many wives out there who have never given oral sex to their husband, or if they have, they do not enjoy it. The reasons can vary, but suffice to say, most reasons would fall into at least one of the below categories:. If you are steadfast against giving oral sex to your husband, I am not sure if anything I write here is going to sway your opinion the other direction. I also recognize that some couples have mutually agreed to not include oral sex in their sexual intimacy, and I respect this choice. My experience has been, though, that the exclusion of oral sex is rarely a mutual decision. Someone in the marriage has selfishly dismissed it without genuinely thinking through that decision or the impact it has on their spouse.
Just like the rest of your sex routine, oral benefits from regularly mixing it up. Mix up your oral game by physically moving around and trying new positions, just like you do in the rest of your sex life. The more body parts that are in the air, the better. Mix it all up by bringing your sex life into new and unexpected places. If your mouth and hands are tired they do a lot of work all day, we get it! Not all porn is created equal, and there are tons of ethical, very chill options out there for those who are so inclined to enjoy. Find a flick you both like, maybe watch for some new moves or tips, and then get to it while the people onscreen are getting to it behind you.
